Lolx....I guess I have been laughing all evening. Today I met up with my secondary school classmates, I was actually invited to attend Edwin's 23rd surprise birthday planned by his girlfriend. But somehow, I felt that it was more like a class reunion for me.
It has been like? 4? 5? years since I last saw most of them. Initially I thought that there would be certain amount of awkwardness, after all it the first time we are meeting after so many years.... However, perhaps because we had so much to catch up, there was so much to talk about. From our "interesting" classmates, to those sickening teachers, and not to forget, the classic moments that are embossed in our minds even forget after so many years.
Friends of E32 : (1st Row) Yun Long, Teng Shang, Edwin
(2nd Row) Yeow Khiang, Me, Si Hui
Basically, I had lots of laughs, and I'm really glad that I finally met up with them. But I got triggered to the nightmares I experienced in my previous relationship. Because of the wrong path, wrong person that I choose a few years back, it caused me to lose all my good friends, all my money, and almost distroyed my future. But whatever's done can't be reversed. Of course if you ask me, I do admit that I regret my choice in the past, but I'm glad that all of that is over. I've lost alot throughout the experience, but I've also learnt and gained alot of values over the period, and now I understand and treasure the people who are really good to me.
I guess it's true that one will learn more after a setback, the way the elders say "kids must learn to fall in order to grow up", "failure is the first step towards success". Perhaps I just had to learn things the harder way.
Well.... I still believe life is fair, after losing and learning so much in my previous relationship, I focused more on myself, and my life took a turn after I initiated the break up. Now, I've found the right person to spend the rest of my life together, and he treats me well. I'm glad that we found each other, and from time to time we will ask each other coincedently that why we didn't met earlier.
Sometimes it takes time to tell who your real friends really are. No particular reasons why I said that, but I just feel that this phrase is true. I'm glad that I still have all these friends even though I lost contact with them after so many years......
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