Monday BaLuuuus~

*zHigUo + xiNhUi = kUkU & LaLa *

So sad.. Im like eating cup noodles alone at home again... We were supposed to be having our dinner somewhere outside... But his colleague is on MC today, so Baby had to cover her OT duties for today.. So much for a blue Monday~

I was like disappointed when Baby told me he had to work, and I was asking him why his colleague had to ask him to cover her duties instead of asking others... Actually in mind I already knew why his colleague asked him first... because Baby loves OTs... He always says that its easy money, especially during the weekends... It doesn't matter to him if his weekends or holidays are burned.. to him, earning money is a bigger deal.

In a way, I should be glad my Baby is so hard working.. but in another way, its quite disappointing with the fact that he rather work then accompany me during weekends... Especially when he knows that I only have 1 weekend off per week...

Well, I always tell myself I should look at the positive and rational side. Baby is working hard to earn more money so that he can pay off his parents housing loan and other minor debts, and on the other side, also save for our better future... If he were to be selfish, he would have ignored all his family burdens and focus on just himself and his future... So on my part, I should be supportive and give him encouragement instead of giving him more problems... what to do... my Baby is a very filial and responsible person, even if his family gives him problems and extra burdens, he will never abandon them... He will only work even harder to improve their lives...

This is the kind of morale values that we can't find in most of the young adults, or even older adults now... Because in this fast paced and improving century, everything is about MYSELF and only MYSELF. So what if you study so much, get yourself a degree or phd?.... If you are a self centered person who only cares about yourself and nobody else, at the end of the day, you will find that you are still not satisfied with what you have. Because the most important things like kinship and friendship is not there for you....

One should reflect on his or herself now and then, and not allowing the stressful fast paced environment change your character and change the way you think.....

Alright, too much of blogging about morale values for today.... Its time for me to go relax and enjoy some tv session for the day~